Reflect Reclaim & Liberate - with Sallyanne Hartnell

Divorce Is Not The Worst Thing

Sallyanne Hartnell

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Divorce is not the worst thing that has or could happen to you.

But maybe staying is.

What if divorce isn't the tragedy in your story? What if it's the turning point?

In this episode, Sallyanne explores one of the most confronting reframes in her work that for many, the marriage ending wasn't (just) loss. It was the beginning.

This isn't toxic positivity. It's about leaving a small door open, to the possibility that one day (maybe not today, or for a while) you might look back at this moment and understand why it had to happen.

Whether you're in the thick of it right now, or further along this episode is for you. 


In this episode:

  • Why grief makes us romanticise relationships that weren't actually making us happy
  • The question Sallyanne asks women who are two, three years out — and what they almost universally say
  • Why 'hard' and 'wrong' are not the same thing
  • How to "borrow" the trust of women who are already on the other side

P.S. we are exploring some shorter episodes in the next few weeks. Message me to tell me if you like short & sweet... or not 


Sallyanne Hartnell - Divorce Coach & Strategist

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