Reflect Reclaim & Liberate - with Sallyanne Hartnell

No-One Is Coming To Save You (Good)

Sallyanne Hartnell

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If you've been waiting...

To feel ready, for the fear to pass, for someone to show you the way this episode is going to land somewhere uncomfortable. And then, hopefully, somewhere freeing.

Sallyanne talks about the quiet story so many carry through asking questions about a relationship, separation or divorce: that when things settle, when they feel stronger, when someone shows them what to do... then  they'll be able to take the next step. 

The problem with that story is that it requires you to stay helpless. And the longer you wait, the more that version of you becomes the only one you can access.

Nobody's coming to save you. And that, it turns out, is actually a good thing.


In this episode:

Why waiting to feel ready keeps you smaller than you are

The difference between needing support and outsourcing your agency

Why courage isn't the absence of fear and what it actually is

The woman you've been waiting for, and why she's already here


Sallyanne Hartnell - Divorce Coach & Strategist

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